Woman Refuses to Pay for Boyfriend’s Dinner After He ‘Forgets’ Wallet Yet Again – Internet Backs Her Up

We’ve all had moments where we’ve accidentally left our wallet at home.

But what happens when someone seems to “forget” it every single time? One woman’s story is sparking major conversation online — and raising red flags about relationship boundaries and financial fairness.

A woman recently shared her experience on Reddit, seeking advice after standing her ground when her boyfriend, once again, conveniently left his credit card behind during a family dinner.

She explained that after dating her boyfriend for nine months, they had developed a weekly tradition of dining out — with his two daughters from a previous relationship joining them.

But each time, the bill ended up in her hands. Why? Because he always claimed he “forgot” his wallet.

Before their most recent outing, she even sent him a reminder to bring his card. He laughed it off.

Once at the restaurant, his kids began ordering the most expensive items on the menu.

She then calmly asked if he had his wallet. His response? A sheepish shrug and, “I must’ve left it in the other jeans.”

At that point, she had enough. She picked up her things and walked out, refusing to pay yet again. According to her, he called her later, furious that she left them stranded. He accused her of being selfish and claimed she made his kids go home hungry.

But Reddit users overwhelmingly took her side.

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“NTA (Not the A**hole). He’s using you. He’s manipulating you. You’re not obligated to pay for his poor planning or excuse-making,” one user commented.

“This man is not ‘forgetful,’ he’s strategic,” another added. “You’re being taken advantage of. This was a pattern, not an accident.”

Many praised her for walking out and refusing to be guilt-tripped. Others pointed out that teaching children such behavior — ordering expensive meals without accountability — sets a troubling example.

Whether you’re dating, co-parenting, or blending families, clear communication and mutual respect are essential. And when patterns of manipulation emerge, it’s important to protect your boundaries — and your wallet.